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Parents and children are lifelong friends

1. First and foremost: never beat your child! Not at any age! Many parents take a slap on the ass for granted - they say they beat me as a child, and I will! Keep in mind: the child will remember the assault of a lifetime, and you can forget about the warmth and trust of the relationship. Remember that instead of corporal punishment you have a sufficient number of other educational measures at your disposal!
2. Learn to listen to your baby. Baby talk seems sometimes meaningless, but it is at this stage that the style of your communication with the child is laid. As he grows up, he will always strive to talk with you, talk about his joys and sorrows, because he will be absolutely sure that he will be listened to with sincere interest and empathy, that all this is as important to you as to himself.
3. Be prepared to talk with your child on any topic.Absolutely any! If a child asks you very intimate questions - it means that you have achieved the main thing: he treats you as a close friend who can be trusted with the most confidential. It is not necessary to disclose to the child all the details of his question, you can always think out in advance what to answer to one or another “tricky” question and formulate your answer in a very streamlined way. The main thing is not to tell the child “You are still small to discuss it” or “How are you not ashamed to ask such a thing!” He will simply no longer address you with a similar question, and you will lose his friendly disposition forever.
4. The interests of each next generation differ from the interests of the previous one. It may seem to you that a child is reading the wrong books, listening to the wrong music, watching the wrong movies, not to mention hanging on the computer ... But this does not mean that your child’s interests are bad, they are different! Try to respect what your son or daughter is interested in, and if possible - to penetrate and love. In this case, you will have many more topics for interesting and friendly communication with your child.
5.Remember the "stupidity" that you yourself did in childhood and adolescence more often. To run in the frost without a hat, to read deeply after midnight and barely get up to school in the morning, to smoke with friends aside - the forbidden fruits were always sweet! Do not scold your child for such offenses, better talk and explain - what is fraught with this behavior, but without the "old man" grumbling, from the position of "senior comrade."
6. Be honest with your child - always, even when he is still very small and seemingly does not understand anything. You can often hear an angry mother saying to the indulging kid: “Now I’ll give you to that uncle” or “Now I’ll call the policeman” and so on. etc. For a while, the child calms down. Two or three times this method works, and then the baby begins to understand: no matter what he did, they will not give him to any uncle and will not call the policeman, which means his mother is lying! And since she is lying, then he can do the same ... This is the beginning of insincerity in a relationship, which can later completely kill any kind of trust.
7. It would not hurt each parent to maintain good physical and aesthetic form, to look “presentable” in the eyes of his child.

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